When I was in high school, I noticed that I could recognize a group of one, two, three, or four at a single glance, but had to mentally divide a group of five to count it. I tried to confirm this effect with my classmates, but apparently failed to explain it so that they could confirm or deny the effect.
I felt a little validation when I heard that there was at least one language which counted “One, two, three, four, many.” Maybe there is something in the deep structure of the human brain that makes five seem like many. And maybe not.
I was reminded of all this youthful theorizing recently when I learned a new tool for my coaching kit. I was reading Lawrence Block’s book Write for Your Life, and he recommended that you end each day by listing five actions you’ve taken to advance your writing career. The actions could be such things as writing a page or several, looking up a map of a location for your book, querying an agent, sending out a review copy or spending the afternoon fishing to clear your head. All actions that serve your writing are fair game. And the list should be exactly five items long.
Of course, this idea can easily be adapted to other pursuits. You could list five items that improve your business, or strengthen your marriage, or improve your health, or help you win the record for largest ball of chewing gum. Any sufficiently large project would work - and you get to choose what “sufficiently large” means.
I tried it last night, and felt a wave of cheer wash over me when I saw the “many” things I had accomplished. I invite you to try it, too. Each evening for a couple weeks, write out five steps you’ve completed that serve your project and see what happens.
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