This morning, I’ve been listening to music and thinking about taste. A song that opens the sky for me — that brings light every time I hear it — can bounce off friends of mine without impact. They may even frown and ask me to turn it off.
There are some songs that reach a wide audience, like “Here Comes the Sun” or “Dragostea Din Tei”. There are others, like “Little Earthquakes” or “March of Cambreadth” that specific audiences take to passionately. There are still others, like the four bars I made up and hum to myself when in a particular mood, that are strictly individual.
All of these songs have their place. The world would be poorer without any of them.
It took me a long time to find my work in the world. I tried a lot of different things, achieved moderate levels of competence in them, felt my attention drifting.
When I found Martha Beck’s book Finding Your Own North Star, it was like being hit by lightning. Like having a parade with drums, trombones and elephants march past my door just to pull my attention to a banner that read: “Do what you want. No, really, DO WHAT YOU WANT!”
“But, but,” I stammered, “what if I want something horrible?”
The conductor kindly stepped aside to answer my question. “You won’t. When we are true to ourselves, our true selves are true to the world, too.”
Martha Beck’s been gathering the evidence. Po Bronson gathered evidence. So did Barbara Sher and Marsha Sinetar and Jack Canfield and many more. What you really want will be to make something, help someone, or solve a problem. That’s the vision that will pull you through the sometimes tedious thousand steps to make it a reality.
What specifically will be your vision? It will be like your favorite song — maybe something millions also love, maybe yours alone. How can you find it?
You could read and work through the authors I’ve mentioned above. Or you could call me. Because my vision is to create a spacefaring civilization by putting the best success tools in the hands of science fiction fans. I’d be very glad to help you find what you want to do and how you can do it.